Furry is not a Fetish

Furry is not a Fetish

The Oklacoma City news site The Lost Ogle recently ran a piece in response to the cancellation of Oklacon. The piece itself is generally sympathetic to furries and appears to take their side against the banning of Oklacon from Oklahoma State Parks.

My problem with the piece, however, has to do with a lingering problem with the inaccurate way the media, as a whole, have come to understand the furry fandom – as one part fetish, one part fursuit.

On the one hand, we should all be relieved that media coverage of furries has been on an upswing in the past decade, where furries were characterized unsympathetically as freaks; indeed, most furries can almost reflexively rattle off the names of television shows, magazines, and websites that contributed to the stigma furries have feared and felt from the general public whose knowledge of furries is little more than what they’ve heard from these sources. It would seem the media have grown tired of the same old narrative that reads “Look at these freaks in costumes! Aren’t they just so perverted and weird? Can you believe how bizarre their sex lives are?” Instead, modern media pieces about furries read more like this: “It’s unfortunate the way society has treated these harmless sexual deviants. We, for one, are open-minded enough to say ‘go ahead and do whatever crazy sex thing you want!”

I think many of you will agree that while the latter story comes off as kinder, it nevertheless comes off as a bit back-handed. And the reason why is pretty apparent when laid out this way: the media, despite wanting to be sympathetic to furries, still trivialize the furry fandom as a fetish.

To put it another way: the media have no idea what furries are. As such, they rely on the same inaccurate stereotypes that plagued harmful news stories a decade ago. Look at the piece from The Lost Ogle again. How are furries described in the piece?

A furry convention…is where furries gather to talk, interact, mingle, and have sex with other furries while dressed in their costumes.


…a few bad apples engaged in lewd acts in furry costumes?


I feel really bad for our furry friends. Most of them are just your typical hard-working, regular old people who like to dress up in animal costumes, camp and play a game of Frisbee or, uhm, late night Werewolf.

See what I mean? The narrative has become “yeah, they’re perverted freaks, but I’m okay with them being as weird as they want.” That’s fine, except the premise is flawed: the furry fandom is, first and foremost, a fandom. A collection of people who gather because of a shared interest in art, stories, shows, music, costuming, etc… that features anthropomorphic themes. While furries have sex lives like anyone else, and their interests in anthropomorphism can influence how their sex lives manifest, it is nevertheless incorrect to describe furries by their sex lives.

To see why this is a problem, take an analogous fandom: the video game fandom. Imagine if reporters described a convention like PAX as “A place where people who have a video game fetish can meet up to have sex with one another while they play video games, and that’s okay if they want to do that, because we respect their decision.” Video gamers would be outraged, and rightly so! Not because they deny having sex lives, or because the story is saying what they’re doing is wrong, but because it’s inaccurate –fans of video games are defined, first and foremost, by their shared interest in gaming. It’s why video gaming is a fandom, not a fetish.

As long as the media continue to inaccurately define furry as a fetish, a sexual activity, or even simply as “people who wear costumes” (in fact, fewer than 25% of furries own a fursuit), reports such as these, no matter how sympathetic they are to furries, will continue to perpetuate the stereotypes that drive furries to hide their interests from their friends and family.

To be crystal clear: there’s nothing wrong with a person being interested in furry-themed pornography or combining the naturally-occurring sex drive with their interest in anthropomorphic art and stories, in the same way there’s nothing wrong with a video gamer having sexual fantasies or pornographic art of their favorite video game character.

But there is something wrong about reducing the complexity of a fandom, be it video games or furries, to “just a weird sex thing”. If a reporter can’t even properly define the group they’re doing a story about, it’s hard to believe the authenticity of their sympathetic view of the group.


  1. I nearly choked laughing at the comparison to the video game fandom. I mean, could you imagine?

    Great article nonetheless!

  2. There is just way too much porn or sexually related art of this category out there to not consider it a fetish. Often it mixes with other kinds such as gay, bondage, tickle, and so on, stuff that relies on trust and dominance.
    I have asked a friend once who is active in a furcomunity about it having sexual relations. He denied it for him self and those he knows, but he can’t deny that the huge amount of sexual art exists and is rather unregulated on the web in comparison to real porn. Also I asked him whether his peers have personal issues, such as wrecked family relationships, emotional disorders or others, and he said that there are many. He himself has a very wrecked family and emotional instability too.
    I have watched his behaviour around people, and found that he has a hightened craving to connect with people and seeks attention, when he wears as much as furgloves. It is a way for him to express, often leading to embarassment or more disconnect, as it is alienating to others.
    I strongly assume, that most of the furries are drawn to be furries due to social problems, mostlikely in their childhood, eg were mistrested or at least not loved enough, now seeking compassion, a place to be happy go lucky, and belonging. To me it is concerning both for the general functionality of families, and for what becomes of these people. Furries are looked at sideways because we instinctively suspect these things. They are traits we often find in mentally ill criminal offenders, eg. pedophiles. So the connection to fetishism sadly isn’t all that unjustified.

    • We’re getting ready to publish a paper on this, but here are the Coles Notes: Furries think other furries like furry porn more than they actually do themselves. Non-furries think furry porn is less erotic/pornographic than furries themselves do (speculation: it may be the animated nature of the medium), and a scratch analysis of Furaffinity found that there was overwhelmingly more safe for work (SFW) art than items tagged NSFW or adult content. The final interesting piece is that purchasing habits reveal that furries overwhelmingly purchase clean art (more than 70% clean for males and more than 90% for females), which informs how they feel as a group, contrary to your anecdote. Like planes that crash, extreme artwork gets more attention than the thousands of planes that take off and land each hour of each day. Our up-and-coming paper will highlight some of the verifiable benefits of porn in the fandom but also documents the ability of furries (most) who choose not to engage with it at all. The bottom-line is this: furry porn is just like all porn but animated with ears and tails and fur: some love it, some hate it, some don’t care, just like you and the general population. Your friend’s anecdote, as sad as it is, shouldn’t give you the confidence to over-generalize this phenomenon.

  3. Hi!

    I was reading this answer and wanted to know if you have any article about this topic: The percentage of sfw and nswf in Furaffinity or another similar page.

    • Sorry, we don’t really have that data because we don’t have access to that sort of metadata (officially). Both Dr Sharon Roberts and Dr Courtney “Nuka” Plante present aspects of SFW and NSFW elements of the fandom in their respective science talks at the various conventions we attend.


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